You’ll frequently hear me say that WOMEN HELP YOU WHEN THEY LIKE YOU and you know the feeling in your gut when you REALLY LIKE her? Yeah, if she doesn’t have that too then forget about her. Let’s say you meet her at a wedding and you chat for a half hour or so – you ask her for her number, she hesitates and says something like “um, why don’t you give me your number” or “can I have your business card” or “why do you want it?”. Happy days are here again – but not really.

Now you’re sorely disappointed because you know that if you can’t at least get her number then she’s not interested – but then she surprises you – after this brief hesitation she relents and ends up giving you the number. Happy days are here again – but not really. Let’s flip it around from your side so we can truly illustrate why a number not given right away is not a number at all. When she hesitates to give it to you. Yeah, if she doesn’t have that too then forget about her.

She starts talking to you and giving you all sorts of buying signals, but you’re still kind of in disbelief mode – I mean here’s a girl you noticed across the room as one of the prettiest ladies at the party and now you’re not only talking to her but she seems into you. What happens next truly blows your mind. I think what happens is you stammer out your number as fast as you can and then you try to get her number too. When she hesitates to give it to you. My gosh – she’s asking you out.

Look, there are a lot of great women out there, but there’s an equal number of women that aren’t so great and don’t have a problem with just getting out of the house for an evening with a guy that’s “okay” in their minds. You were nice enough and you probably have a Visa Card with some room on it so she thinks “what the hell, maybe I’ll like him and if not at least I’m out of the house and maybe I’ll run into someone I like.” Yeah, if she doesn’t have that too then forget about her.